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Reflections

Notes from the therapy room.

Short pieces for parents, young people, and anyone curious about the work. Written in plain language, no jargon, no slogans.

My Co-Therapist, Fonsie: The Healing Power of Pets in Therapy
Featured · Animal-assisted

My Co-Therapist, Fonsie: The Healing Power of Pets in Therapy

How my dachshund Fonsie became an unofficial co-therapist, and the comfort a warm, furry presence can offer when words fall short.

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Screens and your child's development
For parents

Screens and your child's development

Around half of parents rely on screens daily. What helps is context, content and connection, not banning.

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Understanding anxiety in young people
For parents

Understanding anxiety in young people

A short, plain guide for parents: what anxiety is, when it's a problem, and what helps.

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Navigating school transitions
For parents

Navigating school transitions

The shifts no one warns you about, and the small things that smooth them.

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The power of active listening
Practice

The power of active listening

What therapists do with their ears that anyone can learn.

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Building resilience through creative expression
Practice

Building resilience through creative expression

Why drawing, sand tray and play are not 'just for kids', and how they reach what talking can't.

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Box breathing - a 90-second reset
Toolkit

Box breathing - a 90-second reset

An exercise you can do at a bus stop, with your eyes open.

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The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise
Toolkit

The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise

For the moment when everything feels too much: back to the room, through the senses.

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