For you · 18-24

You don't have to be falling apart
to talk to someone.

This page is for young adults. The rest of the site is mostly written for parents and doctors - fair warning, it's a bit more formal.

"actually fine to be cynical about this stuff"
Anxiety·Friendship stuff·Family stuff·Identity·School / uni·Loss·Just feeling off·You name it

Questions you might be asking.

"What if I don't know what to say?"

Most people don't, the first time. We can talk about whatever - the room, your week, why this is weird, a TV show. It builds from there.

"Will my parents find out everything?"

No. What you say is yours. We agree from session one what gets shared and what doesn't - the only exception is if you or someone else isn't safe.

"Is it like in films? A couch and ‘how does that make you feel’?"

No couch. No clipboard. Sometimes we walk. Sometimes there's a dog. It's just a real conversation with someone whose job is to actually listen.

"What if I think therapy is kind of cringe?"

Honestly, fair. A lot of it has been over-marketed. You're allowed to be sceptical - that's actually a good starting position.

"Can we do it online?"

Yes. Lots of clients do video sessions from their room, the car, wherever they can get a bit of privacy. Same work, different location.

"How much does it cost?"

We'll talk fees through on the first call - it's just part of the conversation. If money is tight, ask; there are sometimes lower-cost spots. The first 15-min call is free.

Alexander Lajer

Who is Alex?

I'm a therapist. I work mostly with people roughly your age. I don't think being a young adult is a small thing - most of what shapes a life happens in this window.

I'm not here to fix you. I'm here to think alongside you, and to give a few honest, non-parent perspectives on whatever's loud in your head.

Longer version →

I came in convinced I was wasting time. By session four I was looking forward to it. That's all I have.

- G, 19

No script, no commitment.

Send a message or book the free 15-min call. You don't have to know what's wrong or have a "reason". Just curiosity is fine.